Is it okay for a married woman to go to a night club with her single friends?
First of all, I love to dance, but have a back injury and have not been able to dance for about over a year. My wife wanted to go out with some “single” girlfriends that she just met a month or so ago. I told her that I did not feel comfortable with her going out and that I was hurt that I was not invited. To top things off, she wore a sexy (nearly see through) top that I told her should be saved for when she and I go out together. When I expressed how I felt, she got very mad/defensive and told me that I was acting jealous. I do trust her, but the scenario, no matter how seemingly innocent to her, created some concern to me. When I was younger, I was into the club scene and know how aggressive guys can be to women/married or not. Why would a married woman put herself in the position of being vulnerable (because she was drinking) and go to a club dressed like she was looking for some action and be possibly be hit on by other men? Please only respond if you are married.
I married my husband “for better or worse, in sickness and in health.” I wouldn’t think of going out dancing without taking him along. If he couldn’t dance, he could watch my drinks. I’d probably just find something else to do that he could do, too. Your wife is out of line.
Stellenbosch Police Brutality – South Africa
